Where are my people?

Are support people friends? Are friends support people? During my chronic illness, when I needed support people so desperately, I wondered where mine were, or more accurately, who they were.

First of all, let me say what I think a support person is. It is a person to whom you can go to gain reinforcement and strength. There can be general support people that you go to for any type of support or specific ones that you go to for a particular type of support. For example, frustration with kids or work. Are these people friends? Yes, a support person is a special class of friend, just like work friends, neighbor friends, and family friends. They are not better or worse friends, but friends with an additional facet. This means that a support person can be a work, neighbor, or family friend. So, what about my support people?

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Heaven’s touch – special women in my life

Today I have the opportunity to write a bit about the special women in my life. As with most of you, women have had a huge part in my life. As probably not with most of you, this does not include my maternal mother. This is not because I was adopted or in foster care. No, she was just not a big part of my life and the part she was in was usually not positive. In any case, my object is not to write about my mother, but to celebrate the special women in my life.

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